When I was young my summer months meant playing with friends, coming back home every night. I can’t imagine how terrible the summer must have been for this young man.
It’s pentecost / whit sunday, when we celebrate the descent of the Holy Spirit. I wish you that experience. May it flood any place, wherever you are; may you become more aware of God’s presence and his glory. Not just today, but for all days to come.
Genius is more often found in a cracked pot than in a whole one.
All women should know how to take care of children. Most of them will have a husband some day.
Franklin P. Jones
Love isn’t something you find. Love is something that finds you.
Sometimes programming a small little application can turn into never-ending story. Easy requirements turn out to be nightmares. A video on how difficult it is to calculate with time, and why you should use libraries for that …
Nothing is impossible, if you believe in it
They got it right!
We developers have a great job: We get to write those pieces of code, that make everything so easy and cool. Things you don’t want to do, or that took you weeks, can now be done with the the click of a button. But how often do we think about what you gonna be doing instead?
The definition of friends and their quantification can be very different: Someone may use the definition of “friend” as free as a social networking website, and claim hundreds of friends. Someone else might say, he does not have any friends.
I think both are in some extend wrong: Someone I know isn’t automatically a friend and I think for everyone there are always others out there that are at least willing to be friends.
I recently had a look around in my own (real life) “social network”. And I must say, I have some very unique people there, that love me the way I am; people that have a interest in my well-being, people that accept all my craziness, people that let me be a part of their life.
But friendship is bidirectional: And I asked myself for whom I am doing the same. Thinking more about it, another question came up: Who do I trust? I must confess, the last was quite a difficult one, as I can be very protective in some areas of my personal life and don’t grant to many people a full, universal trust. But I realized that this is quite an important value for having and being a good friend.
There are a lot of wonderful people I know, so many. And quite a lot of them are ‘friends’ I love to hang out with, have fun and enjoy having them around. But when it comes to having a “good old true friend”, I must say, there is a very limited set of these. These people take me serious in all my silliness, share their thoughts and fears with me, aren’t afraid to tell their honest opinion (even if it hurts). listen to me and are there when I need to count on them.
The funny thing is: They were there and that way, even when I couldn’t see it; when I just put them in the group with all the other people I know. And just recently I realized how comfortable I am around these special few; how lucky I am to have them. And I let go, and had that trust that was trying all this time to form naturally go and stopped holding it back. I let go of all my fears. And it’s a wonderful feeling to live these friendships.
I wish everyone on this world has such wonderful persons around him/her. And if you think you do not, I encourage you to have a closer look: Don’t mind how, where and when you met that friend, how different the interests and opinions are, the age difference, the distance… Who do feel most natural around, where do you feel this base for a natural trust, what person do you enjoy to talk to, who is always there for you? I bet there is someone out there for everyone.
Let that instinct you already had as a child come back and see who you would ask “Do you wanna be best friends?”. And if you are unsure, why not ask just that question?
Return the trust and strengthen the friendship, it’s totally worth it!
Lange Zeit hab ich diesen Blog nun ruhen lassen und jetzt den Endschluss gefasst, ihn mal wieder etwas aufleben lassen. Mit Gedanken oder Erlebnissen, die mich beschäftigen oder zu denen ich inspiriert durch andere werde. Und es wird sie auch in Deutsch geben, da manches in der Muttersprache einfacher ausgedrückt werden kann. Oft sind es auch nur schnelle Gedanken, die nicht bis zum Ende gedacht sind und sich auch durch andere ändern können. Deswegen war es mir wichtig einen Rückkanal zu schaffen. Man kann die Posts jetzt direkt auf der Blogseite kommentieren, mit der “Ask me anything”-Funktion könnt ihr Fragen stellen, sowie über alle anderen Kontaktwege eure Meinung dazu abgeben. Ich ermutigte euch dazu!
Ich bin gespannt, was ich nun aus diesem Blog mache, und vor allem, ob ich länger durchhalte.
Back to the blog
I have not taken care about this blog too much, but now I have decided to start it up again. It’ll be a mixture of thoughts and experiences, that I encounter or been inspired to. I’ll also start blogging in German (usually without a English translation). Some things can be said better in my native language. Sometimes you’ll read some brief thoughts I did not evaluate too much and that can be changed by others. Therefore it was important for me to create options for a two way communication. At the end of every blog post you are going to find a comment box or you can use the “Ask me anything”-Link to address what you want to ask/say. You may use any other form of contacting me as well. And I encourage you to do it!
I’m excited and looking forward to what will happen with this blog, and if I manage to keep it alive longer this time.